Keep Seder Simple: FAQs for Your Virtual Passover

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This year, Passover is bringing along with it an entirely new set of questions that extend far beyond the traditional four. For starters: How do I cook a seder meal for just one or two people? How do I host my own virtual seder? Can I get a Passover Haggadah for free? I’m sick of video chatting – can I just have a meaningful seder on my own? Where do I even begin?

Not to fret. Gather is here to answer your most pressing Passover-during-a-global-pandemic related questions and remind you to #KEEPSEDERSIMPLE this year. And, if you have major “screen fatigue” and don’t want to read this – here is a summary: Eat/drink the Passover symbols, tell the story, and ask questions. It truly doesn’t have to get any more complicated than that.

For more info, check out our 2020 Passover Guide.

Food and Drinks

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Q: What am I not allowed to eat/drink on Passover again? 

A: You can’t eat anything containing wheat, barley, rye, oats or spelt that has fermented and risen. Another word for this is “chametz” (ha-metz). Beyond bread, pasta, and Oreos, this includes most beers, bourbons, whiskeys, gins, and wheat-based vodkas. 

Q: What can I eat and drink?

A: Fruits, veggies, eggs, nuts, quinoa, some meat, fish, dairy, and – matzah! There is some debate about whether or not you can eat legumes, beans, peas, rice, millet, corn, and seeds. These foods are called “kitniyot” (kit-nee-oat) and some choose to abstain from them during Passover, some don’t. More on this here. For beverages, you can drink most wines, potato-based vodkas, rum, tequila, sodas (without corn syrup if you’re avoiding kitniyot), juices – and ALL forms of water. 

Q: How do I cook a seder meal for just myself or a few people?

A: Keep in mind that anything you make can be consumed for the entire eight days of Passover – so no need to skimp on portion sizes. Just pick a few dishes you really want to make, and make them as called for. Who doesn’t love having delicious leftovers for teleworking lunches and easy dinners? Here are some traditional seder recipes ideas to get you started and there are tons more here. If it will help to have a cooking buddy, set up a time to prep your meal while tele-connecting to a friend or relative who preps theirs.

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Don’t worry about making an elaborate four-course meal to recreate your Bubbie’s cooking, just pour some wine/grape juice and eat the symbols.

Q: Where can I find very simple versions of Passover recipes I can make?

A: Here are simple versions of charoset (note: replace wine with grape juice for alcohol-free version), horseradish, matzo ball soup, roasted tzimmies, brisket with Insta Pot, Potato Kugel, Potato Latkes, Quinoa Salad, Apple Cake, Brownies, and Caramel Chocolate Matzo Brittle. Boom – you got yourself a delicious and complete Passover meal!

Q: What is a seder plate and what goes on it?

A: This one minute video will show you. If you don’t feel like leaving this page:

  • Karpas (Parsley): It symbolizes the emerging of spring. Ashkenazi custom is to dip it in salt water and Sephardi custom is to dip it in vinegar.
  • Charoset (Sweet Fruit Paste): A mix of sweet fruits, honey, and nuts that symbolizes he mortar Israelites used to construct buildings for Pharaoh
  • Maror (Bitter Herb): Usually horseradish to illustrate the bitterness of slavery
  • Zeroa (Shankbone): Symbolizes the lamb that Jews sacrificed as the special Passover offering when the Temple stood in Jerusalem
  • Beitzah (Egg): Represents the cycle of life and hope for new beginning

Q: Have you seen the grocery store shelves lately?! What can I can substitute for the traditional seder plate staples?

A: Here’s some ideas: 

  • Karpas – Any vegetable like parsley, carrot sticks, celery or a piece of roasted potato 
  • Charoset – Any combo of sweet fruit, nuts, and honey or agave, even jam will do 
  • Maror – A bitter lettuce like romaine or mustard greens, hot peppers, fresh lemon or ginger
  • Zeroa – Roasted beet
  • Beitzah – Avocado pit

More info here.

Q: I don’t trust my cooking skills! Where can I order Passover foods from?

A: You can get delicious Passover food for take-out or delivery from local DMV restaurants and caterers like Balducci’s, Bread Furst, Char Bar, Equinox, Moti’s, Provisions, Shalom Kosher, Soupergirl, and Ridgewell’s. You can also head to Whole Foods, Harris Teeter, or Safeway to get some mixes, matzo, and other ingredients for a “semi-homemade” Passover meal.

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Make a matzah peanut butter & jelly sandwich or matzah pizza. Basically zero cooking skills required, and zero judgement.

Q: All of that seems expensive, how can I get some financial support to help me out?

A: Yes. OneTable is offering nourishment options to local restaurants and grocery stores for those hosting virtual Passover seders. Sign up to host here.

Q: How can I make traditional versions of Passover foods that are vegan, vegetarian, or gluten free?

A: Here are the 9 best vegan Passover recipes and here are gluten free recipes. Side note: You can also use a vegan themed Haggadah!

Q: Why does the seder include drinking four cups of wine?

A: The four cups of wine mark the four verbs God used to describe our liberation from Egypt: See Exodus 6:6-7: “I will bring you out from under the burdens of the Egyptians, and I will deliver you from their bondage, and I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and with great judgments, and I will take you to Me for a people, and I will be to you a God.”

Q: I don’t drink alcohol, what can I use in place of the wine?

A: Try a non-alcoholic wine like Fre’s merlot or red blend. For kosher options – get some Martinelli sparkling grape juice, Kedem kosher grape juice, or the classic Welch’s. Honestly so delicious.

Hosting Seder

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Q: I’m thinking of hosting my own virtual seder this year, where do I begin?

A: Gather what you can find for a makeshift seder plate. Tell the Passover story (we recommend the first few chapters of Exodus, it’s a classic!). Ask some questions.

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Download a free Haggadah. Send the downloadable link to your friends/family who will be joining you for seder virtually, and have everyone take turns reading. 

Q: What Haggadah should I use?

A: Totally your call. There are a ton of options available for free download here. Some are shorter, some are longer, and some have fun themes like chocolate, earth justice, and comedy. If you’re feeling really ambitious and have some time on your hands – you can make your own! Just make sure to send whichever one you choose to the seder participants in advance.

Q: What platform should I use to host a virtual seder?

A: We vote for Zoom. There’s also Skype, Google Hangouts, GoToMeeting, Facebook Live (if you want to create a more open and public seder).

Q: How can I make my virtual seder fun and interactive?

A: Sing songs, do skits to tell the story, listen to music, play Passover charades, try a seder drinking game (e.g. take a sip anytime some says “Moses”), find the afikomen virtually by creating a “Where’s Waldo” type picture to share on the screen (instead of Waldo it’s a piece of matzo, get it?) – and the winner gets a gift card to a local restaurant, and/or email a few simple food or drink recipes in advance so you can “share” in them together.

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Or don’t. If seder comes and you’re feeling angry, tired, sad, hopeless, or any other perfectly okay human emotion to be feeling right now – give yourself permission to let go of our creative plans, and go back to the basics. Eat and drink the symbols. Tell the story. Ask questions.

Q: How can I make Passover more meaningful and relevant for myself and people attending?

A: Imagine you are leaving your own personal “Egypt.” Reflect on the areas of your life where you do not feel free and discuss how to find freedom. As a group, talk about your responsibility in supporting the freedom of others by asking meaningful questions, thinking about acts of service to do after the seder, read a relevant poem, or utilize social justice-themed readings over 4 cups of wine/grape juice. It’s also important to express gratitude for the freedoms we do have. Encourage participants to take a few moments to share what they’re grateful for, including one another. 

Q: I’m kind of tired of the whole virtual hangout thing. How can I have a meaningful Passover experience on my own at home – no technology involved. 

A: We totally get it. Check out this Solo Seder Guide for some ideas, print your own Haggadah or order one online, make a simple seder plate, drink wine or grape juice, and eat some matzah (preferably covered in chocolate). Voila! 

Attending Seder

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Q: I don’t want to host. Where can I find some virtual seders to attend?

A: GatherDC’s Passover Guide has a list and OneTable has a bunch! Email if you want some guidance on the different seder options and what might be the best fit for you.

Q: What’s a nice way I can express my gratitude to the seder host?

A: Send a thank you e-card. If they live locally, email them a gift card to a DMV-area restaurant or consider dropping off a kosher-for-Passover dish at their doorstep with a thank you note. If they are not local, ship them any of these thoughtful gifts

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Lend your skills to express gratitude. Tech savvy? Coordinate the Zoom link. Amateur comedian? Make people laugh at different points during seder that feel appropriate. Beautiful singer? Lead attendees in a Passover song.

Passover 101

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Q: Can you just give me a quick recap about what Passover is again and why we celebrate?

A: Thousands of years ago, our ancestors were enslaved in Egypt. Pharaoh Forced the Israelites into harsh labor and decreed that all Israelite boys be killed at birth. Because of the courage of midwives, mothers, sisters, and princesses, an Israelite boy named Moses was saved and he grew to protest the injustices all around him. God sought him out to deliver the people from slavery and lead them out to freedom. Through a series of plagues and miracles, the people left and began a new journey, one that we are still on today. 

#KeepSederSimple Tip: Watch The Rugrats Passover episode (season 3, episode 26).

Q: What are some traditional Passover customs?

A: One is to give up bread and other leavened products for eight days. This is in memory of the dough that didn’t have time to rise when the Israelites fled Egypt. We also celebrate with a seder on the first and/or second night, a meal full of ritual and conversation surrounding the themes of Passover. During the daytime at the beginning and end of the festival period, it’s customary to attend synagogue services and sing songs of joy.

Q: What are unique and alternative ways to celebrate?

A: As Jews moved and lived around the world, they developed all kinds of Passover seder rituals. For example, Jews from Persia lightly hit each other with scallions during the singing of Dayeinu to symbolize the slaves being whipped in Egypt. Jews from Syria take the matzah from the seder table and place it in a bag that they carry over their shoulders around the table while the leader asks, “What are you carrying, where are you coming from and where are you going?” Or our favorite, Jews from Hungary decorate their table with gold and silver jewelry to commemorate the precious metals the Egyptians gave the Israelites to hasten their exodus from Egypt. You can also theme your seder around topics like social change, LGBTQ history, feminism, etc. 

Q: Who is Elijah and why does he want to come over for seder?

A: Elijah was a prophet. Jewish tradition says he will announce the coming of the messiah, which many Jews interpret as a time of complete peace. We invite him to our seder as a way to express hope for a time when all humans will see the good in each other and strive to live as one.

Have more questions that we didn’t answer? Email them here.

10 Cool Gifts Inspired by the Passover Plagues

With Passover around the corner, you can almost hear the matzah cracking. A true Passover seder must include the recounting of the 10 plagues. In light of the darkness, we thought we’d share a list of 10 cool gifts inspired by the Passover plagues. These gifts are sure to let your people KNOW you love and care about them – even from afar.

Blood – Bloody Mary Carry on Cocktail Kit

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When Pharaoh refused to liberate the Jews from Egypt, the waters turned into blood. When you were given a middle seat on a Spirit flight from DC to LA, you turn to blood. The Bloody Mary Cocktail Kit features a Bloody Mary mix, a bar spoon, rimming salt and 2 mini pickles. This kit won’t give you extra leg room, but it will help you get through the next 6.5 hours. 

Frogs – Zen Meditation Frog Stones

zen frogs

The second plague came to Egypt in the form of frogs. Frogs everywhere. It was a nightmare. Just like life can be a nightmare when every inch of you is covered in stress. Take a page out of these frog’s books and bring some zen to your life. These meditative sealed cement sculptures bring peace, humor, and the art of Zen to off-kilter spaces.

Bugs – Bug in the Code Beer Glasses



Next up? Bugs. Bugs crawled forth from the dust to cover the land. Man and beast suffered untold misery from this terrible plague. What is worse than bugs all over your body? Bugs in your code. Each of these Bug in the Code Beer Glasses is printed with code that has an error in it— a gift any lovable computer nerd in your life will get a kick out of.

Wild Animals – Ankole Horn Tumblers 

Hordes of wild animals roving all over the country, and destroying everything in their path. Egypt was straight up literally where the wild things were. Paying homage to the 1963 classic Children’s Book, the Where the Wild Things Are Tote from Out of Print is an excellent gift. Each purchase helps to fund literacy programs and book donations to communities in need.

Pestilence – EONE Bradley Voyager Cobalt

When Pharaoh refused to comply, a terrible plague fell upon the livestock—horses, donkeys, camels, sheep, goats and cattle. When it comes to cattle, you can always find leather. One of our favorite leather pieces is the EONE Bradley Voyager Cobalt. The Bradley timepiece features raised markers that allow you to feel the time by touch. A perfect gift for trendsetters and the tech-inclined.

 BoilsPimple Popper 

Number six on the list will bring you back to your high school days. Boils burst forth upon man which was so painful and horrible that it must have struck the people of Egypt with horror and agony. For fans of Dr. Pimple Popper, they may have reacted differently. That’s what makes the Pimple Popping Toy the perfect gift for people who lose their heads for black heads. 

Hail and Fire – Storm Cloud 

Moses announced to the king that a hail-storm of unprecedented violence was to sweep the land. Could you imagine if you left your umbrella at home that day? The Storm Cloud is a nifty device that can predict when a storm is brewing. Special liquid inside the glass crystallizes in different patterns as the barometric pressure changes. 

LocustsDark Chocolate Crickets

There were swarms of locusts into Egypt, covering the sun, and devouring everything green that had escaped the hail and previous plagues. A cousin of the locust, the cricket, is actually jam packed with protein. Don Bugito has taken toasted farmed crickets, hand dipped them in bittersweet dark chocolate and topped them with sea salt. That leaves you with a delicious snack and a perfect gift for any adventurous eater. 

Darkness – Glow in the Dark Constellation Blanket

Then followed the ninth plague. For several days all of Egypt was enveloped in a thick and impenetrable veil of darkness which extinguished all lights kindled. When the darkness sets in on your couch, reach for the Glow in the Dark Constellation Blanket. Perfect for Astrology and Astronomy fans. 

Death of First Born – Death Wish Coffee K-Cups

We all know the deal with the 10th plague so I will skip straight to the gift. Death Wish Coffee packs a strong punch in each cup. Their coffee is made from only the highest quality USDA certified organic and Fair Trade beans to give you the best-tasting coffee from the best sources. Dubbed “the world’s strongest single serve coffee capsules” this will get their juices flowing faster than the Red Sea. 

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blakeAbout the Author: Blake Band founded and runs I Give Cool Gifts, the ultimate destination for gift giving inspiration. A DC-area native and resident, Blake works for Streetsense, the marketing and design collective based in Bethesda. An avid photography and district explorer, Blake spends his time playing soccer and kicking back with his friends watching movies and sports.





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Waiting: The Band’s Visit and Life Right Now

“Once not long ago, a group of musicians came to Israel from Egypt. You probably didn’t hear about it. It wasn’t very important.” The opening line of the Tony Award-winning musical The Band’s Visit, serving as a tantalizing undersell of the beautiful story ready to unfold— a story reminiscent of life as we know it right now. 

For those who haven’t had the honor of experiencing this production, The Band’s Visit is just that. It is a  heart-achingly simple depiction of an Egyptian Ceremonial Police Orchestra becoming stranded for one night in a small town in the Negev desert. The locals take them in, show them hospitality, and then (spoiler alert), the next day the musicians leave as scheduled. 

Near the start of the show, we hear from the residents of that small town in a song called Waiting. The people of Bet Hatikva feel trapped by the the stagnant nature of their isolated, desert town. They have clearly accepted this as their way of life, and yet they cannot help but find themselves weary of it, too. Every day they interact with the same people, visit the same places— days blurring together over time. Of course, they can’t help but be wistful that one day there might just be something more— something different.

Does that sound a bit familiar these days? 

My friends, this is officially the song (and production) of our time. While the characters weren’t actively fending off a pandemic, it’s easy to hear some similarities in the humdrum of these Israeli’s passing the time, and us doing the same today. The lyric, “This sofa is a boat and I’m just drifting right along”, is a sentiment that we all relate to at some level. Waiting puts a melody to this madness. 

Later, Israeli Café owner Dina opens up to Egyptian Colonel Tewfiq in a song called Omar Sharif. This song is Dina’s way of showing this strange visitor that they have something in common— their affinity for the same Egyptian actor, Omar Sharif, and singer, Umm Kulthum. While simplistic on the surface, this song teaches us that we can learn to experience magic in the things we do at home. Dina enchants us with colorful imagery about how it feels to be engrossed in the work of this actor and singer; 

and the living room becomes a garden, and the TV set becomes a fountain…”. 


If we fully embrace the art that brings us together, everyday things have the potential to become extraordinary.

Throughout the production, the quiet lives of the Israelis compel them to grapple with some truly raw emotions. They have time and space for their minds to wander, which is far from easy. When the Israelis grew more comfortable with the musicians, they slowly began sharing their tales of loneliness, fear, love, and longing. They were amazed to learn that the Egyptians knew those feelings, too. They shouldered one another’s’ sorrows and joys, and suddenly, Bet Hatikva didn’t feel so small to anyone. 

With so much out of our control, it feels natural to focus inward — filling our space and time with the innermost wearings on our hearts, no matter how inconsequential they may seem. Some days that could simply feel like boredom or restlessness, and other days like worry or anxiety. What The Band’s Visit shows us is that we don’t have to feel these things alone. We make our small world a bit bigger by allowing ourselves to let others in (though not literally, of course). 

The Band’s Visit models how to practice vulnerability and care, and teaches us how much good it can do for ourselves and others. This production is far from flashy. If you’re not paying close attention, you might assume that nothing monumental really happens. But humanity exists in the details of this story. I say we give this a try. Then somehow, amidst the mundane nature of our day-by-day existence, we could see all the beauty that humanity has to offer. 


marleeAbout the author: Marlee Ribnick is a writer and communicator who will dive headfirst into challenging conversations. Passionate about political discourse, with experience driving change in the nonprofit sector, Marlee believes in the power of prose to shape the course of history. When she’s not fighting for the little guy, Marlee is rooting for the Missouri Tigers and volunteering as a nationally appointed consultant for Sigma Kappa.







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Bake Challah with Rabbi Ilana!

Rabbi Ilana is so excited to share her famous challah recipe with you (adapted from Modern Jewish Baker). Follow along, and then be sure to tag GatherDC in your final product on Facebook or Instagram. Happy baking and Shabbat Shalom!




  • 1 1/2 tablespoons dry active yeast
  • 1/2 cup + 2 tablespoons + 1/2 teaspoon sugar
  • 1 1/4 cup lukewarm water 4 1/2-5 cups of unbleached bread flour
  • 1/2 tablespoon fine sea salt
  • 1/4 cup vegetable oil
  • 2 large eggs

For the topping:

  • 1-2 egg yolks
  • Any toppings you want like sesame seeds, everything toppings, salt


  • In a small bowl, place the yeast, 1/2 teaspoon of sugar and lukewarm water. Stir gently. Allow to sit for 5-10 minutes, until the mixture becomes foamy at the top.
  • In a large bowl, mix together 1 1/2 cups of flour, the salt, and 1/2 cup of sugar (plus two tablespoons of sugar if you want a sweeter challah). Add the yeast mixture and oil to flour. Mix thoroughly. Add another cup of flour and eggs and mix until smooth.
  • Add another 1 1/2-2 cups of flour and mix. Either remove the dough from the bowl and knead on a clean, floured surface of knead in the bowl itself. Add flour as needed, 5 minutes.
  • Place the dough in a greased bowl and cover with a bowl. Place in a warm spot, like over a warm oven and allow to rise for 3 hours. You can also cover the bowl with plastic wrap or tin foil and allow to rise overnight in the fridge.
  • Divide the dough in two and make two challahs (or rolls). Once you braid, place challahs on baking sheets lined with parchment paper or a silicone mat.
  • Preheat oven to 375 degrees and allow challahs to rise for another hour on top of the oven.
  • Once the dough has doubled in size, beat an egg yolk and brush over challahs. Add toppings. Place baking sheets in the oven and bake for 24-26 minutes, or until golden brown.

Observing Jewish Traditions While Social Distancing


A few days ago my wife and I watched Rabbi Fischel from Washington Hebrew Congregation and her husband Rabbi Abbot livestream lighting candles and saying Shabbat prayers on Instagram Live. This was a bit of a different experience than when we attended the last 2239 Metro Minyan service she led a few weeks ago, or when we were at the GatherDC townhouse a month ago welcoming in Shabbat with a group of Jewish 30-somethings.

One week ago my wife and I lit candles at our home for Shabbat. We don’t do it every week when we’re home and not Shabbat hopping around DC. Although my wife and I lit candles alone in our home, we were joined over FaceTime with my wife’s two sisters and their spouses, plus her parents. We connected from Boston, Cleveland, Detroit, and from our home in the DC suburbs. Thanks Apple.

While on FaceTime, I received a text from Rabbi Aderet Drucker from The Den Collective in Bethesda. The text said:

rabbi aderet

Today a participant of a Taglit-Birthright trip that I staffed in 2011 asked about virtual Shabbat services, so I pointed her to community leaders like Rabbi Shira who hosted a Facebook live “Virtual Shabbat” at Sixth & I Historic Synagogue. I shared this information while watching and listening to a concert from Idan Raichel that was being live streamed from the Jewish Agency for Israel.

While synagogue and JCC doors are closed for the current national emergency, my family, Washington Hebrew Congregation, Sixth & I, The Den Collective, and others are finding new ways to observe our Jewish traditions – whether over video chat from our smartphones or through webcams.  

In a few weeks time, my family and I were planning to get back together – in person – for Passover. We planned to fly. We planned our usual family tradition to have two seders – the first with relatives and the second with family friends. Although those plans have since changed, we will still be together for Passover. But rather than having seder together in person, we will be together over Zoom.

One of my favorite ideals of Judaism is that we often have more questions than answers. And I certainly have questions – like: 

  • “How can we welcome the stranger while closing borders, restricting travel, and practicing social distancing?” 
  • “How can we support those in need, whether local hourly workers who are losing their jobs or having their hours/tips cut back due to the economic ramifications of COVID-19?”

Every generation redefines Judaism through a lens that is meaningful to them. Through the connectedness of news and social media, we, as the next generation of Jewish leaders, can embrace Jewish community virtually when physical brick-and-mortar institutions of Jewish life are locked for the foreseeable future. Jewish educators will continue to find ways to teach us. Our community leaders will find ways to bring us together. We will find ways to connect with family and friends for Passover and other Jewish holiday celebrations. 

Though this year, when the youngest asks, “how is this night different than all other nights?” over FaceTime, Zoom, Facebook live, or the phone – we may have a slightly longer answer.



jasonAbout the Author: Jason Langsner has been an active lay leader of the Washington Jewish community since moving to the city in 2004, and volunteers for several Jewish organizations including B’nai Brith International. He is a small business owner and formerly served as the head of digital strategy for the oldest Jewish human rights and humanitarian organization in the world. When not blogging, he can often be found walking around his Eastern Market neighborhood, or riding around DC area bike trails.





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How to Host a Virtual Shabbat

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Shabbat in the modern world has grown in many ways. While using digital technology on Shabbat may not be the right answer for some, in times of separation or for those who suffer from issues of mobility, these modern resources can help us stay connected and share the rituals and meaning of Shabbat in ways they couldn’t before. 

I have always found value in being with loved ones on Shabbat and it becomes that much more important in times of strife. While we can’t be together physically, we should be able to bring people together in spirit and engage in conversation about how we can support each other and ourselves through these challenging times. 

To get started here are some resources you can use to make your shabbat work online:

  1. Find a siddur (prayer book) or bencher (blessings for rituals and meals) that you like. OneTable has a great one specifically for virtual and solo experiences with explanations of the blessings, alternative versions, and mindfulness exercises to elevate your dinner experience.
  2. Pick a hosting platform such as Houseparty (up to 8 participants), Zoom (Up to 4 with free version). 
  3. For candle lighting: As the host you can light candles and lead the blessings – and if not everyone in your call has access to candles, the Center for Healing Arts has a page for “lighting” virtual candles and is a great resource you can point your guests to. It gives directions on how to light candles virtually and offers the chance to light them in honor of what has meaning to them. There is also live candle-lighting online, led by GatherDC’s Rabbi Ilana Zietman every Friday at 6 pm. Click here to register
  4. Pick an icebreaker that is fun but offers a productive way to get to know people. A good example of this is “What is something people would be surprised to know about you?” or “What is the story of your name?” or “What three people living or not would you invite to your shabbat table?”. Anything open-ended is a great way to start off the conversation.
  5. Have some questions ready to discuss. If you have a theme for your virtual Shabbat, make sure they stay relevant but also leave room for people to discuss what is alive for them. 
  6. Pick something fun to do! There are many online game platforms such as Quizup, Xyzzy (Cards Against Humanity), etc.

Register your Shabbat experience with OneTable, and you can distribute nourishment to each virtual attendee – to get information on the best ways to do this contact your regional manager, for DMV area dinners contact Annie at

Also, if you don’t feel like hosting your own this week, see GatherDC’s calendar for a list of virtual Shabbats events across the DMV.


alex fAbout the Author: Alex Fosco is GatherDC’s Community Coordinator and strives to help 20s and 30s build solid foundations and connections so they can thrive in Jewish DC. When she’s not sprinting across the city to meet someone for coffee, you can find her exploring Georgetown, noshing at one of DC’s amazing restaurants, or traipsing through the Virginia wilderness with her friends. Say hi and ask Alex about her love of costuming!





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