All Israel Has a Share

Will Gotkin
All Israel Has a Share
May 25, 2010

Since Gaonic times, Jews have had the custom of studying the Mishna of Pirkei Avos, also known as Ethics of the Fathers, during the long Shabbos afternoons between Pesach and Shavuos. Many others continue to study it throughout the summer months until Rosh Hashanah. It is interesting to note that each of the six chapters of Avos begins with the statement: “All Israel has a share in the World to Come.” This is an important message that each Jew need understand and internalize. Let’s probe its meaning a little more deeply.

What are the ramifications of saying that every Jew has a share in the World to Come? According to Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch (1808-1888), every Jew that hasn’t “utterly divorced” themselves from the “lofty spiritual and ethical destiny” of Judaism will get a portion in the World to Come. However, one’s portion will vary according to one’s merit.

Growing up in a predominantly Christian country, this came as a surprise to me. It often seems that the singular focus of many religions is to attain the goal of Heaven. Here, an authoritative Jewish text tells us that just by being born Jewish (and for men, undergoing a circumcision) we have a parking space reserved for us in the next world – whatever that means. I’m not going to get into the Jewish view of the afterlife. Rather, I want to explore what we as Jews should do with this information.

First we must recognize that while we are guaranteed a portion in the World to Come, the size (anthropomorphically speaking) of that portion depends on our actions in this world. I think an easy way to look at it is to compare this world to the stock market. In the beginning, Hashem created Wall Street…and it was eh, let’s not get into it. Every path one may go down in life can be viewed as a stock in which one may invest. Hashem brings us onto the trading floor amidst all the confusion of people yelling at us to buy or sell. We go through life with people trying to pull us this way and that way, but ultimately each of us invests in something.

However, not to accuse the Almighty of unethical business practices (G-d forbid!), in a Divine act of spiritual insider trading, Hashem offered all of the nations of the world to invest in Torah with the guarantee that its shares would pay off in large returns.To potential investors he promised eternal life – Not bad! Remarkably, the Jews, known for their keen business savvy, were the only ones to take Hashem up on this offer of a lifetime (no pun intended). Perhaps this is why Jews have often been accused of controlling the world’s finances.

Now that we know the returns on our investments are guaranteed, all that is left to be done is to invest as much as we can in Torah. Perhaps the most beautiful thing about it is we don’t even have to wait until the World to Come to see a pay-off on our investments. Mind you, our returns will be modest, but they will be steady. Torah is kind of a Blue Chip—the more we invest, the greater our share in Torah in this world and the next. There are many suited, shiny haired, smooth talkers who constantly ask us to invest in other things – things that may give us a quicker and lucrative return on our investments. “Come on!” they urge. “Being Jewish is great and all, but why do all of these mitzvos?” All we have to do is laugh at them. We know our ability to experience the rewards of Torah is limited only by how much we wish to invest.

When compared to financial matters, this is an easy concept to understand. Spiritual rewards are much harder to grasp than material, but are infinitely greater. We experience a sample taste of them in this world, but in the next we get to eternally savor their sweetness. We never have to worry about them dipping in value. Our shares in Torah only appreciate. Other stocks have to be sold quickly before they crash painfully into the ground leaving us with nothing. By contrast, the gains on our shares in Torah are eternal.

Will Gotkin is a contributing writer for Gather The Jews.

Naso — You Must Be Ready And Set Before You Go

Stephen Richer
You Must Be Ready And Set Before You Go
Numbers 4:21 – 7:89

Arthur Brooks, the president of The American Enterprise Institute, once told me that for gifted students, the real challenge lies not in accomplishing objectives, but in defining these objectives with confidence—once their minds are set, gifted students can move forward with relative ease.

This principle—the importance of a resolute mind—is the focus of the fourth Aliya of Parshas Naso. The section explicitly addresses concerns of female infidelity: it outlines the initial suspicions of the man; how the infidelity is to be proven, and the punishment should the woman be found guilty.

“Speak to the children of Israel and say to them: Should any man’s wife go astray and deal treacherously with him…” (Num 5:12)

But it doesn’t require too much syntactical flexibility to transcend the literal meaning and read the passage as a need for a clear mind.

When thoughts of infidelity first plague the husband—“But a spirit of jealousy had come upon him and he became jealous of his wife” (Num 5:14)—the husband is told to bring his wife to the kohen in the very next verse. Both the immediacy of the action and the involvement of the kohanim suggest that the problem of misgiving, of doubt, is very important. If the husband continues to wonder, continues to question, the relationship cannot be successful.

But not only should the problem be addressed; it should be resolved. The Portion offers a foolproof way for clearing any doubt of the woman’s infidelity:

“Then the kohen shall stand the woman up before the Lord and expose the [hair on the] head of the woman; he shall place into her hands the remembrance meal offering, which is a meal offering of jealousies, while the bitter curse bearing waters are in the kohen’s hand.” (Num 5:18)

In a sense, part of this Aliya boils down to the maxim “fish or cut bait” or, more simply, “make up your mind.” Productivity and happiness are impossible without a committed mind. To return to the statement from Arthur Brooks, it’s very difficult to successfully move forward in law school if simultaneously longing for, or preferring, a doctorate in political science. Similarly, many college freshmen learn that it’s challenging to develop a new life on campus when both heart and brain are fixated on a high school sweetheart more than 500 miles away. And perhaps most commonly, it’s difficult to function at a high capacity in the workplace if uncommitted the job—specifically, in the think tank world to which I belong, it’s hard to raise money if uncommitted to the cause.

But more plainly, the Portion speaks to relationships. Without trust, a marriage/relationship can’t be successful. So if there are issues of trust, issues of mental unease, they need to be resolved immediately.

God has confidence in the skills and ability of the Jewish people to accomplish great things. But before greatness can be achieved, we must remove doubt from our minds and move forward with confidence.

In The Image of G-d — Pikrei Avot series

Ayin Tove
In The Image of G-d

We learn in the Talmud:

Beloved is man (literally “Adam”) for he was created in the Image.
Even more beloved is man that it was made known to him that he was created in the Image.

Pirkei Avot 3:18 (quoting Rabbi Akiva).

Descartes attempted to prove the existence of G-d based on the fact that we have an idea of G-d.  Specifically, he reasoned that our idea of G-d is like the signature with which a sculptor signs his work.  Meditations 3:38.  Whereas Descartes started with man, and tried to prove the existence of G-d, Rabbi Akiva in the above passage starts with G-d and explains the effect on man.  Rabbi Akiva follows the first Biblical creation story:

And G-d said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.  They shall have dominion over the fish of the sea and the bird of the heaven and all the earth and all the creepy things that creep on the earth.  And G-d created man in His Image, in His Image G-d created him, male and female created them.”

Genesis 1:26-27.

Rabbi Akiva’s insight is that man is beloved because of this genesis.  Whereas Descartes was interested in the facts of existence (I think therefore I am; I think of G-d therefore G-d is), Rabbi Akiva is interested in what it means to be created by G-d, and specifically created in the divine image.

This is the same Rabbi Akiva who said that the most important verse in the Bible is “Love your neighbor as yourself.  I am the Lord.”  Lev. 19-18.  For Rabbi Akiva, we have an obligation to love ourselves and our fellow humans, because we are all created in the Image of G-d.

This is the basis for much modern thought.  Rabbi David Hartman and others have described “creational ethics.”  The basic idea is that people deserve to be treated well because they exist and they’re people too, just like you and me.

We could have a good discussion about what is the Image of G-d and what it means to be created in the Image of G-d, i.e., what man has in common with G-d.  Maimonedes (Rabbi Moses ben Maimon or the Rambam) explains in his Guide to the Perplexed that, for Jews, the Image of G-d is not physical or corporeal, and may be hard to define because G-d is beyond definition.

In any case, we are beloved by being created in the divine Image, and we are beloved because we can do something with this knowledge.

Ayin Tove is the pen name for a lawyer working for the federal government in Washington, D.C.

Bamidbar — Out of Chaos, Order

Stephen Richer
Out of Chaos, Order
Numbers 1:1 – 4:20

As befits the title, Numbers is begun by counting. Counting what?  Counting Jews. Not directly though.  As Rashi said, “According to their head count: They gave a half shekel and the coins were counted since it is forbidden to count them literally by head.”  But it amounts to a similar effect; by the end of the portion we are given an exact number of non-Levite Jewish males over the age of 20 (603,550).

The Portion then assigns the tribes their positions within the camp, and their positions while traveling:

“The legions under the divisions of the camp of Ephraim were to the west … Next to him, the tribe of Manasseh.” (Num 2:18 – 2:20)

At first glance then, the Portion seems to exist for historians and census-takers rather than moralists and life coaches.  But Maimonides offers three explanations for the presence of this seemingly-mundane Portion in Judaism’s central text.  First, by counting the Jews, credit and thanks are given implicitly to God.  Prior to escaping Egypt, the Jewish people were relatively few.  In only a matter of years, the Jews doubled and then doubled again—witness and acknowledge the miracle of God!

Second, Maimonides reminds us that though the Torah is the birthplace of our grand moral postulates, the text also served a practical purpose.  In preparation for entering the Holy Land, the Jews had to assemble an army, the prerequisite for which was counting the number of fighting-age males.[1]

Third, and lastly, Maimonides draws an important leadership lesson from the counting exercise: An effective leader must know his people.  The Portion mandates that Moses and Aaron do the counting; this ensures that the leaders individually interact with each person that they could potentially send off to battle.

But in addition to the principles outlined by Maimonides, the Portion also reads as an endorsement of order over chaos.  After a wild and crazy Exodus, God figures out who is still alive; he puts them in tribes, and he puts the tribes into positions.[2] The once scattered Jewish escapees now more closely resemble an ordered army.

According to most Jewish theologians, the behaviors of God should be read as large-scale representations of how to conduct an individual life.  Looking around my apartment, it’s not terribly difficult to see how this endorsement of order could have practical consequences.  True, keeping a neat room and an ordered life is something we’ve all heard from our parents, but it’s worth hearing again, and besides, where did our parents got it from?

Interestingly, the ordering of the Jewish people was a necessary precursor for entering the Holy Land, for achieving a heightened spiritual, moral, intellectual, and physical plane.  Perhaps the ordering of our thoughts, notes, or apartment can’t promise as grand a reward, but order is seen as a step for moving forward: you have to order your notes before you can start typing; you have to clean your dishes before you can start cooking (or so I’m told…my cooking experience is limited to microwaving…).

In this sense, organization is also empowering.  The Jewish people scattered and disbanded are easily targeted by Amolek, but organized, they are a force that can take over the Holy Land.  Similarly, scattered notes serve little use for a term paper.  Only when they are accessible and manageable do they become powerful.

I don’t know my habits will change instantaneously, but it does force me to further recognize the benefits of organizational skill.  Maybe an upcoming New Year’s resolution?

[1] It seems bizarre that the fighting age has gone down from the Biblical age of 20 to 18 in most countries despite the fact that we now are slower to develop.

[2] Interestingly, this is the exact methodology preached by Testmasters for LSAT games that involve grouping and sequencing.  First you get your group, then you sequence them.  The best way to think of it is if you have 5 baseball tickets, you’d first choose five friends, then you would sequence them in different seats.  You wouldn’t start by sequencing all of your friends, then choosing five.

Chapters of the Fathers — new series.

Ayin Tov
Introduction to New Series

**Editor’s Note** – This is the introductory post for a new series at Gather The Jews.  A new post for this series will come out every Tuesday.

It is traditional to study the Chapters of the Fathers (“Pirkei Avot” or “Avot”) at this time of year.  Indeed, we learn from there the importance of studying Torah for its own sake:


Whoever engages in Torah for its own sake merits many things; and it doesn’t end there, but it is as if the the whole world is created for this: he is called friend, beloved: loves God, loves mankind: pleases God, pleases mankind. … And they enjoy from him counsel, and sound wisdom, understanding, and strength, for it is said, Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom: I am understanding; I have strength (Prov, viii. 14). And it gives him kingdom, and dominion, and faculty of judgment. And they reveal to him the secrets of Torah; and he is made, as it were, a spring that ceases not, and as a river that flows on increasing. …

In this blog, we examine one teaching every weekday (hopefully).

Ayin Tov is the pen name for a lawyer working for the federal government in Washington, D.C.

Behar-Bechukotai — The Burned Hand

Stephen Richer
The Burned Hand
Leviticus 25:1 – 27:34

This week’s Torah Portion contains the Tocheche or The Rebuke, “a lengthy description of the terrible punishments awaiting the nation, if they do not follow the Torah.” (

Unfortunately for the Jewish people, the punishments described go well beyond weeding the garden bed or being grounded.  Observe:

“If you despise My statutes and reject My ordinances, not performing any of My commandments, thereby breaking My covenant…

then I too, will do the same to you; I will order upon you shock, consumption, fever, and diseases that cause hopeless longing and depression.  You will sow your seed in vain, and your enemies will eat it…

Your enemies will rule over you; you will flee, but no one will be pursuing you…

I will break the pride of your strength…

I will incite the wild beasts of the field against you…

You will eat, yet not be satisfied.”  (Leviticus 26:15 – 26:26)

Pretty grim stuff.  But then, suddenly, at the end of the section, the mood is lightened, and we are told:

“But despite all this, while they are in the land of their enemies, I will not despise them nor will I reject them to annihilate them, thereby breaking My covenant that is with them, for I am the Lord their God…

I will remember for them the covenant [made with] the ancestors, whom I took out from the land of Egypt before the eyes of the nations, to be a God to them.  I am the Lord.” (Lev. 26:44 – 26:45)

Why does the Portion scare us with verse after verse of potentially calamitous punishments, only to assure us that we will never been entirely abandoned, destroyed, or despaired simply because we are the descendants of Abraham and Moses?

The sages—via Rabbi Zvi Teitelbaum—offer two answers.  The first says that the concluding assurance is meant to dull the effect of the news and calm our nerves.  This seems reasonable; I’ve been scared by mere mortals (namely my high school baseball coach, my seventh grade baseball coach, and one or two teachers); I would probably manage even worse if subjected to a holy chastisement.
The other reasoning suggests that by evoking the names of our great ancestors, we will be motivated to attain a higher level of spirituality and morality.  Surely the Jewish people want to live up to the names of Moses and Abraham.

I’ve also felt the effects of this phenomenon.  I try hard—but to little effect—to emulate the successful people in my family.

But this “emulation factor” pales in comparison to the motivational thrust of the more readily apparent mechanism in the Portion: fear.

It’s said that “the burned hand [or the possibility of a burnt hand] is the best teacher.”  Witness the character of Ron Weasley in the Harry Potter series.  Ron desperately seeks to match the accomplishments of his brothers, but when left to his own devices, he prefers games of Gobstones and Chess over studying or Quidditch training.  It’s not until threatened with something like a detention from Professor Snape that he churns out his essay on Werewolves (Harry Potter and The Prisoner of Azkaban).  Similarly, countless movies have featured a protagonist in fear of his life performing otherwise impossible feats.

But the “fear factor” has descended to far more mundane matters.  Certain voluntary websites now automatically deduct money from your credit card if you fail to meet your goal of wait loss or writing your first book chapter?

Why are the sages reluctant to embrace this forthcoming motivational mechanism of the Torah Portion?  Most likely because the notion that God has to coerce us into good behavior is unsavory on two levels, 1) because threats and other “sticks” are frowned upon in today’s culture, and 2) it seems absurd that God should have to descend to something so commonplace to motivate us.

But there are threats and there are threats, and given the conciliatory last lines of the Tocheche, God’s threat is of the “tough love” variety.  He recognizes that we humans respond effectively to fear, and so he utilizes it.  But by reiterating his love for us, the threat can be seen as “for our own good,” and therefore doesn’t warp our relationship.  It’s the same way that a Dad might tell his son that if he doesn’t study, doesn’t show up to class, and fails out, then he will have to bring a hundred plagues down on the son’s head (no car, no video games, no allowance, no t.v., no cell phone, etc.)  But to maintain a healthy relationship, the Dad reminds his son that he loves him; he just wants to see the continued success of the family.

Having just sat through a rather unproductive Friday afternoon, I appreciate the effectiveness of the occasional deadline, threat, or other instigator of fear as motivation.  But threats should be made the right way, the way that God made his—they should be coupled with the reminder that the end goal is not simply to produce fear, but to make progress.

The Beauty of Brachos

William Gotkin
The Beauty of Brachos

Many Jews say blessings or brachos everyday, often without putting much thought into it. To most, brachos seem like a natural way of expressing gratitude to G-d for all that He gives us. But are brachos about more than giving thanks? Like all aspects of Jewish observance, the reasoning behind brachos is rich in underlying ethical and spiritual teachings.

According to our Sages, a Jew should recite 100 brachos or blessings a day. Understandably, this seems like a daunting task. For some it is perhaps less daunting upon learning that the majority are said during the three daily prayer services, and the remainder are said before and after meals and before the performance of other daily mitzvas. If the Sages required that we say no less than 100 of them a day, then one can reasonably conclude the Sages considered brachos important. Why? Here, I will attempt to briefly explain to the best of my ability why we say brachos, the deeper meaning behind brachos, and how saying brachos can enhance our lives.

First the obvious question. What is a bracho? According to Artscroll’s The Laws of B’rachos, there are three categories of brachos. One category involves those that we say over enjoyable activities such as eating and drinking. Another involves those that we say over observing mitzvos such as tefillin, blowing shofar, counting the Omer, and tzitzis. Finally, the third category includes those that we say during the three daily prayer services – Shacharis, Mincha, and Maariv (the brachos of the Shimoneh Esrei fall under this category).

Part of why we say a bracho is to give thanks. We are expressing gratitude to G-d and recognizing that all that we have and all that we are able to do comes as a direct result of His will and not our own or anything else’s. However, behind brachos is something deeper than saying ‘thank you’. The word ‘baruch’ is often translated as ‘blessed’ or ‘praised’. Does it make sense for a mortal human being to bless or praise the all-powerful, omniscient, Creator of the universe? We make brachos, not because G-d needs us to, but because it gives us an opportunity to connect with Him. The word baruch means more than thanks or praise. Rather, according to The Laws of Brachos, it denotes an utter and complete dependence on G-d. We not only thank Him, but we recognize that nothing in this physical existence can occur without Him specifically willing it. The Sages instituted brachos for so many facets of life in order to teach us that everything from the tiniest drop of water to our ability to wake up in the morning comes from G-d. This is meant to teach us that G-d is not simply the Creator, but the orchestrator of all that happens. Brachos reinforce this powerful teaching on a daily basis.

When G-d gave humans dominion over the world, we were given the ability to denigrate or elevate our existence. When we make a bracho over something such as food we unlock its hidden spiritual potential. By making brachos for even the simplest, most mundane, and animal-like aspects of our lives such as eating, drinking, and going to the bathroom, we elevate these activities and make them holy. More importantly, through bringing out the G-dliness hidden in our environment we elevate ourselves and actualize our spiritual potential.  By recognizing our complete dependence, we are not simply receiving G-d’s gifts, but appreciating and delighting in recognizing that they are from G-d. Brachos allow us to transcend our nature which is to simply take from this world. Giving thanks and recognizing our complete dependence on G-d, in turn, makes us become better givers. In this way, brachos enhance life with greater meaning and depth. From a Jewish standpoint, gratitude and awareness of G-d are linked to happiness. One who truly knows everything comes from G-d is happy with his lot in life. When said with kavanah (concentration), brachos help us internalize this idea and empower us to connect to G-d through all of our daily activities.

Emor – Tradition!

Stephen Richer
Leviticus 21:1 – 24:23

Having missed out on Jewish school and Jewish camp, I struggle with Hebrew songs—as anyone at last week’s Chabad Shabbat services can attest.  But when Rabbi Shemtov requested a solo performance of “If I Were A Rich Man,” I sang at the top of my voice, pleased to show that I can comfortably recite at least of one of our people’s great songs.

And now this week I’m titling my Dvar Torah “Tradition.”  I don’t try to see life through the lens of Fiddler on The Roof (FTR), but it is filled with so much wisdom and so many great songs that it is hard to avoid—and it is currently playing here in Washington.  Plus, seeing as how FTR is absent from my first seven Divrei Torah, it doesn’t seem unreasonable to ask for your indulgence this one time.

And so we begin…

In the prelude to the Tradition song (found here), Tevye lists several of the traditions held by his town (Anatevka).  They have traditions pertaining to food, sleep, work, and clothing.  “How did this tradition get started?” Tevye asks himself, and then offers the following, “I don’t know.”

Like most things in Judaism, our traditions originate in the Torah.  This week’s Portion establishes some of our most prominent traditions:

Passover:  “In the first month, on the fourteenth of the month, in the afternoon, [you shall sacrifice] the Passover offering to the Lord.” (Lev. 23:5)

Passover cont.: “You shall not eat bread or [flour made from] parched grain or fresh grain…” (Lev. 23: 14)

Rosh Hashanah:  “In the seventh month, on the first of the month, it shall be a Sabbath for you, a remembrance of [Israel through] the shofar blast a holy occasion.” (Lev. 23:24)

Yom Kippur: “But on tenth of this seventh month, it is a day of atonement, it shall be a holy occasion for you; you shall afflict yourselves, and you shall offer up a fire offering to the Lord.” (Lev. 23:27)

And so on and so forth…

Despite not knowing the origin of his traditions, Tevye knows their purposes:

The first:  “Because of our traditions, every one of us knows who he is.”
Traditions connect the individual Jew to the entire Jewish people, spanning both time and distance.  Just as we celebrated Passover in Washington, D.C. a few weeks ago, so too did Jews in Argentina and Israel; so too did Jews in New York City in 1910.

Our history gives credence to this “unbounded” theory of Judaism.  After the fall of the first Temple in 586 BCE, Jews were dispersed throughout Mesopotamia, the Middle East, North Africa, and even into Europe.  But physical proximity was not necessary to maintain Jewish peoplehood.  The Torah, and its enumerated traditions, gave shape and commonalities to the Jewish people, so much so that by 1200 CE, Jews in Spain exchanged letters on religious thought with Jews in the Middle East.

Tevye’s second answer to the question of “why traditions?” is that “because of our traditions, we’ve kept our balance for many, many years.”

If all knowledge of previous civilization suddenly vanished, we might not know when to work, what to eat, when to take seven day vacations, etc.  We would, in fact, lose our balance.

Fortunately, we don’t have to reinvent the wheel.  More than 3000 years of human existence has given us a pretty good idea of what works.  And if it worked for our mothers and fathers, then it will probably work for us too.  Tradition!

If we accept this principle—that wisdom is established over time and moves from generation to generation—then we would be unwise to wantonly abandon the traditions of our ancestors.  We might not be able to articulate the logic behind all of our established traditions, but the mere fact that they have existed for so long should cause us to question any revolutionary break lest the questioned tradition be the very foundation for maintaining our existence.

So sing on to Tradition, and enjoy your Shabbos—a tradition that both reaffirms our commitment to Judaism and serves to balance our mental and physical health.

Acharei-Kedoshim – The Pyramid of Success

Stephen Richer
The Pyramid of Success
Leviticus 16:1 – 20:27

This week’s Torah portion is full of interesting topics.  It discusses Yom Kippur; dietary laws; incest, bestiality, and homosexuality; a number of the Ten Commandments; tattoos; and equal justice under the law.

A discourse of sexual immorality appeals to my puerile brain, but I’m going to instead start with the following quotation and see where it takes me.

“Any man of the House of Israel, who slaughters an ox, a lamb or a goat inside the camp, or who slaughters outside the camp,

but does not bring it to the entrance of the Tent of Meeting to offer up as a sacrifice to the Lord before the Mishkan of the Lord, this [act] shall be counted for that man as blood he has shed blood, and that man shall be cut off from among his people.”  (Lev. 17:3 – 17:4)

The quotation reminds us to be grateful to those who have been kind to us.  In the grandest sense—as detailed in the Parsha—God created us, gave/gives us food, took us out of Egypt only a couple chapters ago, etc.  We acknowledge this by expressing our thanks, be it through sacrifice in the Tent of Meeting, through prayer, or however.

But this lesson applies equally to the non-spiritual world.  Nobody makes it to the top, or even close to the top, without significant help from others—teachers, coaches, mentors, etc.  The Parsha suggests that this is especially relevant to the family dynamic.  The beginning of the next verse—“in order that the children of Israel should bring their offerings …”—names the Israelites as children and God the parent, thereby suggesting that a similar relationship should unfold among genetic children and parents.  Later text reinforces this parallel:  “Every man shall fear his mother and his father, and you shall observe My Sabbaths.  I am the Lord, your God,” (Lev. 19:3) and “For any man who curses his father or his mother shall be put to death; he has cursed his father or his mother; his blood is upon himself” (Lev. 20:9).

Most readily apparent is the lesson that because parents birth, feed, and clothe the child, parents are owed a sacrificial ox, lamb, or goat, or the modern day equivalent.

Children should certainly give thanks to their parents (**note to self**), but sacrificial lambs and Mother’s Day flowers aside, parents should derive satisfaction simply from the successes and prosperity of their children. On the most basic level, it is the combined genes of the parents that have built the child and his talents.  But it is also true that the success of the child reflects on the continuing actions of the parents.  Victory of the child on the athletic field, in the classroom, in business, wherever, is often the product of extra efforts of the parent.  For this reason, the parent should never be jealous of the child’s success, but instead, the parent should be the child’s biggest booster, realizing that any awards won for by the child translate (except in rare cases) to the parent.

In many respects, this is the story of the American immigrant.  First generation immigrants often struggled to reach the stereotypical definitions of success, but their efforts often paved the road for later generations.  To reiterate—but in slightly different language—success is not built in one generation; it is the product of generations of family members working toward similar goals.  Parents would do well to take the same pride and happiness in their child’s accomplishment as they would their own success. And the child would do well to acknowledge that his efforts simply represent the highest point on a growing pyramid.

On that note, happy upcoming Mother’s Day!

Take The Jews Out To The Ball Game

Stephen Richer
Take The Jews Out To The Ball Game

In an atypical fashion, the Jewish crowd showed up early to the Nationals baseball game this past Sunday.  And it’s a good thing they did; otherwise they would have missed the ten runs that Milwaukee posted in the top of the first inning.

But despite the fact that the announcer called the President’s Race “the main event of the day,” the Nats did manage to climb back, making the last innings interesting as they lost 7 to 11.

More than 20 people showed up with the DC Minyan contingent led by Judy, allowing for a very spirited Hava Nagila from their section behind the center-right wall.  Some bloke named Stephen Richer was the only person to have a go at getting on the “Dance Cam” in the 4th inning, but nobody in the group made it on the big screen; nobody caught a ball, and nobody caught a t-shirt.  Better luck next time?

Side notes:

Wanting to fully digest the experience, your GTJ investigative reporter bought a pretzel, a chicken panini, and a peanut butter flavored gelato, none of which were adversely affected by the lop-sided score or the wind. Additionally, one member of the DC Minyan crowd managed to time the Kosher hot dog stand just right so that he received a “closing sale” of four hot dogs for the price of one.

The Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society (HIAS) also rallied together a number of J-Squaders to attend the event.